Eph6v1to9: PAUL'S ADVICE TO CHILDREN AND PARENTS: EMPLOYEES AND EMPLOYERSIntroduction. (Read the reference) Paul adds to his advice on the relationship that should exist between a Christian husband and wife with instructions on the relationship that should prevail between children and parents and slaves and masters. So, following Warren Wiersbe, I will look at each party separately. (1) Children. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. "Honour your father and mother" - which is the first commandment with a promise - "that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth." This short passage makes three main points: (a) It is right to honour and obey parents. I think we all know what it is to obey! The Greek word translated honour is derived from a word meaning, 'heavy weight'. If a parent is honoured their words will carry weight and will not be treated lightly. It is appropriate for children to obey their parents for a number of reasons:
(b) Jesus is pleased when children honour and obey their parents.
Paul quotes the fifth commandment to reinforce what he has to say. Honour your father and your mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the Lord your God is giving you. Dt5v16. This is actually the second in the list of 10 commandments with a promise attached. So, perhaps, Paul means it is a primary commandment - in the first order of commandments - with a promise. It can hardly be taken literally. There are many children who have honoured their parents who have had short lives. Perhaps, the promise attached to the commandment is recognition that if family life breaks down then ultimately society breaks down and degenerates into anarchy and chaos. No nation will survive long in these circumstances. I was also reminded today that the life expectancy of people living on the streets - a symptom of family disintegration - is 30 years less than the national average. (2) Fathers and mothers. Do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. v4. I don't believe fathers have a monopoly of exasperating behaviour! Paul gives two instructions to parents. (a) Don't exasperate your children. There are a host of ways a parent or a school teacher can exasperate a child. These include:
Well that's probably enough to be going on with. (b) Teach and train your children. These go together. You can't have one without the other.
This is the twin approach I adopted as a school teacher. I disciplined my pupils and imparted my subject. I inculcated good work habits and taught the facts and skills of Geography. Christian parents should heed the words of R.W. Dale written in his 1883 commentary on Ephesians: Parents should care more for the loyalty of their children to Christ than for anything besides, more for this than their health, their intellectual vigour and brilliance, their material prosperity, their social position, their exemption from great sorrows and great misfortunes. (3) Slaves, servants and employees. Paul wrote for the benefit of household slaves. When applying Paul's words to the modern day we need to remember that the slave had no rights. He or she could be treated like a living tool. Not all were; conditions varied widely, but nonetheless the owner had the right to throw out slaves too old or ill to work and leave them to starve. So it is no good ignoring Paul's message because our work is menial, degrading, unrewarding and poorly paid. We are likely to be better off than most slaves. Paul deals with: (a) The employee's integrity. Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. v5. The worker should obey orders with sincerity of heart. His integrity should be unimpeachable. The employee doesn't show willing, agree to get a job done and then in the absence of the employer take it easy. Tom Wright, in his commentary on Ephesians, describes his experience of working on a building site in his youth. The labour force took it easy during their working day to ensure having to do overtime. As soon as the overtime started they worked at a furious pace to get jobs that usually took them three hours done in one. Then the foreman cooked the books and put them down for three hours overtime. Duplicity and deceit all round. Employers have got round this today by putting men on piece time. Brickies are paid for the number of bricks they lay in a day. The truth is that a Christian should undertake every task in his secular employment as if it was set by Jesus! (b) The employee's motivation. Obey them not only to win their favour when their eye is on you, but like slaves of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. v6. There are plenty of employees who work hard when they are being inspected to make a good impression, to acquire a good reputation and to get on. There are at least a few bone idle teachers who during an Ofsted Inspection will prepare brilliant lessons and pull out all the stops to mightily impress the inspectors. It is a different matter when they are unobserved. Then these lazy teachers take it easy doing the minimum they can get away with. Mind you, it is not so easy now with the publication of league tables and the setting of targets. Christians are told to do their secular work as if they were doing it for Jesus. His eye is always upon us! It is in the will of God that we give of our best. What a difference this should make. William Barclay wrote: The conviction of the Christian workman is that every single piece of work he produces must be good enough to show God. If the Christian finds this difficult surely he should be able to do church work for Christ's sake. Sometimes I would spend hours preparing a sermon and my mother would remonstrate with me: "John, why work so hard, you are only speaking to a handful of simple souls." Well, it is not good enough to have a, 'that'll do,' mentality when serving Jesus. I can honestly say it makes no difference to me whether I am addressing 5 or 500, I will make the same effort in either case - to please the Lord. (c) The employee's demeanour. Serve wholeheartedly as if you were serving the Lord, not men, because you know that the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. Christians should work wholeheartedly at whatever job they are doing. Now I am a realist and I cannot say that I undertook all my tasks as a teacher enthusiastically, cheerfully or gladly. I found some jobs very tedious. There wasn't much joy marking Geography coursework or writing hundreds of reports. I cannot claim that I always thought that I was serving Jesus when I wrote reports. I did quite often think, "I'll be glad when I've finished." However, I worked hard at them, took a pride in them and did them to the very best of my ability. I did consider that anything less would be unbecoming in a Christian. Our society would be transformed if everyone was a Christian and made their work an offering to God. There would be no more lazy teachers, profiteering plumbers, officious policemen, corrupt politicians, uncaring nurses or inefficient civil servants. I like this passage in George Elliot's, 'Adam Bede,' about the reaction of a group of carpenters to knocking off time:
All hands worked on in silence for some minutes, until the church clock began to strike six. Before the first stroke had died away, Sandy Jim had loosed his plane and was reaching for his jacket; Wiry Ben had a screw half driven in, and thrown his screw-driver into his tool-basket; Mum Taft .... flung down his hammer as he was in the act of lifting it; and Seth, too, had straightened his back, and was putting out his hand towards his paper cap. Adam alone had gone on with his work as if nothing had happened. But observing the cessation of the tools he looked up, and said, in a tone of indignation,
"Look there, now! I can't abide to see men throw away their tools i' that way, the minute the clock begins to strike, as if they took no pleasure i' their work and was afraid o'doing a stroke too much." If Paul teaches what he does about secular work how much more it applies to church work. If we are expected to work wholeheartedly in the world then it is abundantly clear God expects us to give our all for the church. Yet a great many Christians shirk their responsibilities to the church. (4) Masters or employers. There are two clear instructions to employers: (a) Reward good workers. And masters, treat your slaves in the same way. In other words, just as Jesus the Lord will reward everyone for whatever good he does so should the employer. Christian employers should:
(b) Do not threaten. The Christian plantation owners in the southern states of the U.S.A. took little heed of this God given instruction. Many beat their slaves to make them work harder. Paul says it is wrong to intimidate employees. The macho culture in some businesses today would be anathema to the little apostle. Jesus does not expect Christians to throw their weight around. Paul reminds Christian employers that they and their Christian employees have the same Master. He has no favourites and there is no slave nor free with him. Perhaps what is even more to the point: the Christian employer and his Christian employees are brothers with the same Father in heaven. Many years ago now my father was a Grace Baptist pastor who needed to supplement his income with secular employment. For a few years he worked for a Christian farmer called Stanley Sharpe. Mr Sharpe treated my father with respect as a fellow Christian and as a Baptist minister. My mother told me that during the short time my father worked for Stanley he left home in the mornings whistling happily. He faced a bicycle ride of 8 miles to get to work on an old, single gear bike but he didn't mind - he was working for someone who treated him as a Christian brother. It makes me sad to think about it because my father also laboured for years on a farm where he did not whistle on his way to work.
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